the
''peace at home''
starter pack
Watching Over Your Walk,
Your House, Your Seed.
Tools to help you build yourself first.
GUARANTEED TO BE MORE EFFECTIVE THAN ARGUMENTS...
AND CHEAPER THAN DIVORCE.
zechariah 11:17 (kjv)
“woe to the idol shepherd that leaveth the flock..."
Tired of feeling like every argument with your wife leaves more damage than progress?
Sick of walking on eggshells for days after a fight…or sitting in silence because neither of you knows how to break it?
You don’t want to be passive. You don’t want to blow up. But right now, it feels like you’re stuck in a lose-lose cycle.
Handle Tension Like a Shepherd—Not Like Another Man Who Lost His House.
Each tool designed so YOUR walk, your house, & your seed don’t pay the price for unchecked emotions.
10-Micro Modules...to watch & complete at your own pace.
The Check-In Toolkit...a robust & highly effective system for awareness + remedy.
7 Tension Ready Phrases...to help you defuse conflict fast with wisdom.
ECCLESIASTICUS 40:23 (kjv)
“A friend and companion never meet amiss:
but above both is a wife with her husband.”
you already feel the weight...
Whether you’re single, dating, a husband,
or a father.
one sharp word has the power to
shift the whole mood.
arguments either blow up,
go silent, or get swept
under the rug.
and often times you walk away thinking...
"connection with her should not have to be this difficult"
If anyone knows that feeling it's me...I get you.
and although it is your godly duty to lead your household, not knowing how is an
all-too-common theme:
nobody really showed you how it looks to guard your flock...starting with your own spirit.
so now...
Your tone doesn't always match your intentions
Your wife's respect for you feels shaky
And if that doesn't change, it won't just cost you an argument.
It will cost you influence in your relationship AND house.
unfortunately, many of us did not have righteous examples of fatherhood.
instead, we saw:
Fathers who yelled and crushed the house
Men who went quiet and let chaos run wild
Husbands who worked hard outside of the home, but lost order inside
No father-figure in the home at all
shepherds dont move BY REACTION...
liKe sheep
He watches. He prepares. He steps in with purpose.
FOR YOU, THAT MEANS:
Your walk: how you carry yourself before the Most High AND in private
Your house: the tone, the atmosphere, the peace in your space
Your seed: the children watching you—or the future family you’re praying for
If you fly off the handle or fold every time there’s tension, the flock feels it.
This pack is built to help you lead yourself first—
so when conflict hits, you don’t act like a sheep in the storm,
but like the shepherd on duty.
three simple tools.
one clear mission.
You’re not getting random downloads.
You’re getting three tools that work together
to shift how you
handle tension...
arguments to agreements - mini course
This 10-micro module breakdown walks you through how to move in conflict as
a man of order,
not a man of chaos...
step-by-step.
at your own pace.
whether that’s with a wife,
a woman you’re ''dating'', or anyone close to you.
ECCLESIASTICUS 25:1 (kjv)
“In three things I was beautified…a man and a wife that agree together.”
Inside this mini-course you'll learn:
How to show up as a Shepherd, not a rival in the heat of the moment
How to hold your frame when you feel disrespected without
becoming a "bully"
How to shift a heated back-and-forth into a path toward agreement
How to stop “keeping the peace” by folding—and start building real peace with clarity
The “M.V.P.” pattern
(Mental note. Validation. Perspective)
so your mind has something solid to grab when your emotions spike
For the single brotha, this shows you how to build these habits
before you enter a covenant.
For the husband and father, it helps you stop repeating the same arguments...
and leave a different pattern
for your house.
the check-in toolkit
Most couples only talk when something’s
already broken.
This toolkit gives you a clean way to sit down on purpose—before resentment stacks up.
ECCLESIASTICUS 33:4 (kjv)
“prepare what to say, and so thou shalt be heard: and bind up instruction, and then make answer."
Inside you'll get access to:
A simple structure for simple check-ins you BOTH can commit to
Honest questions that help you both speak without attacking or dodging
A one-page agreement you walk through and sign together so you're moving as a team
A series of unique prompts that keep the conversation going without turning it into a debate
It’s about being biblically complete—quick to repent, quick to repair, quick to grow—
Not chasing flawless performance.
For single brothas, you can still use the self-check pieces to prepare your own heart for future leadership.
Guaranteed.
7 power phrases to defuse tension fast
- pdf guide -
Sometimes you don’t have time to sit and process deeply.
You just feel the room heating up and need something solid to say that doesn’t add fuel.
proverbs 15:23 (kjv)
“A man hath joy by the answer of his mouth: and a word spoken in due season, how good is it!"
This guide gives you:
7 real-life phrases built for real tension, not fantasy arguments.
Notes on the tone to use with each (steady, firm, gentle, etc.)
When each phrase fits best—early warning signs, mid-argument, or near the edge
A breakdown of why each phrase works—what it does to your own spirit and the atmosphere
Used with the M.V.P. pattern from the "Arguments to Agreements" Mini-Course, these phrases become tools you can call on when your
flesh wants to snap.
Single, courting, married, or father—if you plan to lead people, you need words that don’t betray you when
pressure shows up.
How The
''peace at home''
starter pack
Works Together
Think of it in
"Shepherd" terms:
Arguments to Agreements
Teaches you how to guide during the storm
The Check-In Toolkit
Helps you walk the field regularly so the flock doesn’t drift far
7 Power Tension Defusing Phrases
The staff in your hand when something suddenly jumps out
Prepare your own spirit.
Lead in the heat.
Tend to the relationship afterward.
All in ONE pack.
what happens if you do nothing?
If nothing changes, here’s what usually happens:
The arguments keep circling the same mountain
Silent stretches grow longer
Kids watch and copy what they see
Single brothas carry the same patterns into their first marriage
You don't need a big program, or a dozen books to start effectively leading differently...trust me!
I AM PROOF OF THAT.
YOU JUST NEED:
Clear teaching you can replay
A simple process you can reuse
Words you can reach for when emotions are loud
That's what the
"Peace at Home"
Starter Pack
hands you!
the brotha behind all this...
Peace! It's Brotha Shamai.
I’ve served the Most High for ten years, walked as a husband for nearly five, and I’m a father.
I hold one conviction—if a union truly fears God and fights to move from arguments to agreements, “irreconcilable differences” is a MYTH.
Homes don’t need to bleed money, pride, or disappointment trying to repair damage that obedience could have prevented.
1 Peter 3:7 drives me — husbands are commanded to dwell with understanding,
NOT outsource it.
I reject the modern lie that you need degrees, credentials, or expert strangers to tell YOU how to lead YOUR house.
Too many brothers “keep the peace” instead of becoming PEACEMAKERS, handing their authority to counselors, podcasts, and personalities who don’t know their story.
I’ve seen the fallout. Peace begins with the man—clarity, consistency, AND most importantly, fear of God.
THAT is the work I live and teach.
who is the starter pack for?
Single men who don’t want to carry broken patterns into their first covenant
Husbands who are tired of feeling like they lose ground every time there’s tension
Fathers who know their children are watching how they move
Men who want to guard their walk, their house, and their seed—not just their income
What You Get today—Tools That immediately Change How Your House Runs
arguments to agreements
- 10 micro modules -
* $100 value *
Training that shows you how to stop talking past each other and actually resolve the issue.
Example: when she says, “You never listen,” you won’t shut down or get defensive — you’ll know exactly how to respond so the wall comes down instead of going up.
marriage check-in toolkit
* $70 value *
A repeatable structure that keeps problems from piling up until they blow.
Example: instead of learning she’s hurt only when she finally snaps, you’ll have a proven way to learn of it early, deal with it, and move forward.
7 phrases to defuse tension fast
* $20 value *
Words to reach for when things start heating up—before you say something you regret.
Example: when you sense irritation rising over something small, you’ll know exactly what to say that de-escalates it, keeps respect intact, and saves the night.
Total Value:
$190
TODAY:
$33
Got a question?
What if my wife is the one who always escalates things?
Peace At Home isn’t about fixing your wife, it’s about leading her and your household towards alignment.
You’ll learn how to stay grounded no matter how she responds and how your response can shift the whole dynamic.
That is our duty as Godly Men.
Will this work if my marriage is already in a bad place?
If you’re still living under the same roof and both willing to speak, this can help.
This isn’t marriage counseling.
It is a way to take the reins and shift how you show up, which can change everything.
What if things are mostly good...we just argue sometimes?
Then now is the best time to learn this. Don’t wait until things break down.
What you’ll learn here will make the good seasons more stable and the hard moments easier to lead through.
Can I really change this in just one workshop?
The Peace At Home Starter Pack offers a framework + tools you can use right away.
No dragging it out for weeks. You’ll leave with tools you can use in your next conversation...not months from now.
What if my wife doesn’t respond well to anything I try?
You’re not responsible for her reactions, you’re responsible for your leadership.
The Peace At Home Starter Pack is about doing your part with wisdom and peace. And when you change how you show up, things usually shift fast.
I’m already busy, is this going to add more pressure?
Nope. It’s just 10-Micro Module videos + printable tools to implement daily, weekly, or monthly.
That’s it. Consume and apply at your own pace.
FAITH | FAMILY | FORTIFY
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